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		<title>That was Then, This is Now: Zen Moments #1</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 03:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That was then, this is now: It is very simple, yet a very profound statement (like all things Zen, this is the beauty of Zen). Rejoice in the way things are today without missing the good old times. Often people have a hangover of the past, they paint quite a rosy picture of the life [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2370&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><span style="color:#993366;"><em>That was then, this is now: It is very simple, yet a very profound statement (like all things <a class="zem_slink" title="Zen" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zen" rel="wikipedia">Zen</a>, this is the beauty of Zen). Rejoice in the way things are today without missing the good old times. Often people have a hangover of the past, they paint quite a rosy picture of the life they had (even though they might have cribbed n complained about that very life when it was happening). But we should realize that everything has it’s time n place. There’s a time for birth, a time to grow &amp; time to die. Everything happens in its own perfect timing. A few years back I had a full-fledged career, a busy routine, good income &amp; lots of money at my disposal. Now I am a home-maker &amp; though those things are no longer there, their absence has created room for new type of experiences: more simple, more serene. Now money might be less but time to reflect on my thoughts n mysteries of life is more. Right now I’m enjoying this placid life. I can’t dream of having it otherwise. Though I’ve to do some mundane chores like cooking n cleaning, something that couldn’t have been even thinkable when I was a studious student &amp; a busy professional. Often people ask me which is better, the professional life or the life of a home-maker &amp; don’t I miss that so-called high life??I always say ‘That was then &amp; this is now’</em></span></h2>
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		<title>Fatshion Blog #2</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 05:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We don&#8217;t need to be size 0 to dress up &#38; look good (as a matter of fact size 0 looks kinda malnourished n sick). There was a time when my hubby used to say things like if you lose 10 kgs, I&#8217;ll buy you new clothes worth one lakh rupess &#38; I used to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2360&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">We don&#8217;t need to be size 0 to dress up &amp; look good (as a matter of fact size 0 looks kinda malnourished n sick). There was a time when my hubby used to say things like if you lose 10 kgs, I&#8217;ll buy you new clothes worth one lakh rupess &amp; I used to be excited about it!! That time I had not even realized how hot a Plus size woman can look. Dressing up is a matter of taste &amp; personal style &amp; not of size, ergo there are lots of &#8216;normal&#8217; sized women who are frumpy &amp; many &#8216;plus&#8217; sized women who are chic. Now I assert my right to shop all I want at my current size (&amp; oh I&#8217;ve gained 10 kgs or so since then but ironically I like myself more now than I did then)</span></em></h2>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><em><span style="color:#993366;">Fatshion = Fat + Fashion is the new paradigm that rejects thin/skinny as beautiful, it establishes that beauty &amp; health come at all sizes. Blogosphere is full of cool Divas who&#8217;ve who are slowly but surely busting the myth of society n media created standards of beauty. This was the Best lesson I learned in 2011. Finally saying goodbye to diets n postponing buying dresses to &#8216;when I lose X Kgs&#8217;&#8230;I am beautiful right now&#8230;I am Awesome as I am &amp; Here I Gooooooooooo</span></em></h2>
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		<description><![CDATA[A farmer had many complaints. He told the Buddha all about how difficult his life was. It seemed that the weather never cooperated the way that he wanted. It was either too wet or too dry, so his crops often failed. Also, while his wife was a good woman, she was much too critical of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2344&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h1><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">A farmer had many complaints. He told the Buddha all about how difficult his life was. It seemed that the weather never cooperated the way that he wanted. It was either too wet or too dry, so his crops often failed. Also, while his wife was a good woman, she was much too critical of him, and lately his children were showing no gratitude for anything that he did for them. Furthermore, his neighbors were much too nosey and seemed to always be interfering in his affairs by spreading gossip about him.</span></em></h1>
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<h1><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">The farmer, finishing his list of complaints, looked expectantly to the Buddha for a solution and was surprised when the Buddha said the he could not help him. According to the Buddha all human beings have 83 problems and that is just the way life is. While you can work hard and solve a few problems, once you do others will soon take their place. Upon hearing this, the farmer, in exasperation, asked, &#8220;Then what is the good of all your teaching?&#8221; The Buddha replied, &#8220;My teaching can&#8217;t help you with the 83 problems, but perhaps it can help with the 84th.&#8221; &#8220;What&#8217;s that?&#8221; the farmer asked. &#8220;The 84th problem,&#8221; the Buddha said, &#8220;is that you don&#8217;t want to have any problems.&#8221;</span></em></h1>
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		<title>Buddhism in Bite Size Lessons: Lesson #15: Commentary on Kalama Sutta</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Image via Wikipedia Kalama Sutta The people of Kalama asked the Buddha who to believe out of all the ascetics, sages, venerables, and holy ones who, like himself, passed through their town. They complained that they were confused by the many contradictions they discovered in what they heard. The Kalama Sutta is the Buddha&#8217;s reply. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2336&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h2><span style="color:#0000ff;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:xx-small;"><em>The people of Kalama asked <a class="zem_slink" title="Gautama Buddha" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gautama_Buddha" rel="wikipedia">the Buddha</a> who to believe out of all the ascetics, sages, venerables, and holy ones who, like himself, passed through their town. They complained that they were confused by the many contradictions they discovered in what they heard. The Kalama Sutta is the Buddha&#8217;s reply.</em></span></h2>
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<h2>Do not believe anything on mere hearsay.</h2>
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<h2>Do not believe in traditions merely because they are old and have been handed down for many generations and in many places.</h2>
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<h2>Do not believe anything on account of rumors or because people talk a a great deal about it.</h2>
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<h2>Do not believe anything because you are shown the written testimony of some ancient sage.</h2>
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<h2>Do not believe in what you have fancied, thinking that, because it is extraordinary, it must have been inspired by a god or other wonderful being.</h2>
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<h2>Do not believe anything merely because presumption is in its favor, or because the custom of many years inclines you to take it as true.</h2>
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<h2>Do not believe anything merely on the authority of your teachers and priests.</h2>
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<h2>But, whatever, after thorough investigation and reflection, you find to agree with reason and experience, as conducive to the good and benefit of one and all and of the world at large, accept only that as true, and shape your life in accordance with it.</h2>
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<h2>The same text, said the Buddha, must be applied to his own teachings.</h2>
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<h2>Do not accept any doctrine from reverence, but first try it as gold is tried by fire.</h2>
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<h2 style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">For me this is the chief appeal of <a class="zem_slink" title="Buddhism" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Buddhism</span></a>. <a class="zem_slink" title="Gautama Buddha" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gautama_Buddha" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Buddha</span></a> doesn&#8217;t give us any Gospel truth. He doesn&#8217;t force any belief on us, nothing is to be believed because Buddha said so.  It has a very scientific n rational approach. We test a hypothesis on the basis of our life experiences n accept it only if it rings true for us.</span></em></h2>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a Zen saying, &#8220;Before Enlightenment chop wood carry water, after Enlightenment, chop wood carry water.&#8221; What&#8217;s the difference? The tasks are the same &#38; yet different, &#8216;cos of a change in how we view them!! Before enlightenment (in our context while we are still running the Rat Race; Quitting the Rat Race is nothing short [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2319&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">There is a <a class="zem_slink" title="Zen" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zen" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Zen</span></a> saying, &#8220;Before <a class="zem_slink" title="Age of Enlightenment" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_Enlightenment" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Enlightenment</span></a> chop wood carry water, after Enlightenment, chop wood carry water.&#8221; What&#8217;s the difference? The tasks are the same &amp; yet different, &#8216;cos of a change in how we view them!!</span></em></h2>
<h2><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">Before enlightenment (in our context while we are still running the Rat Race; Quitting the Rat Race is nothing short of Enlightenment!!!) chopping wood &amp; carrying water seem boring &amp; mundane. We resent doing that&#8230;we do it grudgingly while our mind craves for excitement. We&#8217;d rather be living a high life, seeking thrills &amp; excitement, planning our next purchase, next promotion, &amp; impressing people with our shiny possessions. There is a huge Gap between reality &amp; expectation &amp; our mind is under constant stress.</span></em></h2>
<h2><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">After Enlightenment we start appreciating the beauty of mundane stuff. We perform the task of chopping wood &amp; carrying water with Zen like ease &amp; peace, basking in the sun &amp; appreciating the miracle of existence &amp; nature. Every breath is filled with peace &amp; Joy. Profound Spiritual Joy can be found in everyday activities. The Chop Wood Carry Water attitude can be applied in the context of our everyday chores &amp; help us realize that there is joy  in doing the laundry, cleaning, paying bills, bathing, cooking, and doing what many people sadly think is boring everyday needs. </span></em></h2>
<h2><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">In this day and age where people rush here and there and express a sense of loss, because they feel they need to always be doing something noticable, I think this attitude would be a great healing tool, in teaching people that doing the &#8220;chores&#8221; of life, can in fact be a relaxing and growth enhancing activity.</span></em></h2>
<h2><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">This also reflects the attitude of rejoicing the way things are rather than always wanting for something else to happen. Usually our attitude is something like &#8220;If this is coffee, please bring me some tea; but if this is tea, please bring me some coffee.&#8221;~Abraham Lincoln. We just crave for the things that we don&#8217;t have instead of enjoying what has indeed been given to us. </span></em></h2>
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<h2><em><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#0000ff;">”The Master sees things as they are,Without trying to control them.He lets them go their own way, And resides at the center of the circle. He/She understands that the Universe is forever out of control, And that trying to dominate eventsGoes against the current of the Tao. Be content with what you have; Rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, The whole world belongs to you.”</span></em><em><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#0000ff;"> ~Tao Te Ching.</span></em></h2>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;"><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">This is the only meditation I know. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#0000ff;"> While I eat, I eat. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#0000ff;"> While I walk, I walk. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#0000ff;"> And while I feel sleepy, I sleep. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#0000ff;"> Whatsoever happens, happens. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#0000ff;"> I never interfere.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><em><span style="color:#0000ff;">Bokuju</span></em></h2>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every year I start squirming &#38; getting uncomfortable around this time of the year, a time when women in North India celebrate a festival called Karva chauth, where they fast all day for the long life of their husbands!! This is the most stupid n ridiculous thing in a married Indian women&#8217;s life (which is [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2307&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Every year I start squirming &amp; getting uncomfortable around this time of the year, a time when women in North India celebrate a festival called <a class="zem_slink" title="Karva Chauth" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karva_Chauth" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#993366;">Karva chauth</span></a>, where they fast all day for the long life of their husbands!! This is the most stupid n ridiculous thing in a married Indian women&#8217;s life (which is incidentally full of absurdities like special adornments such as <a class="zem_slink" title="Sindoor" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sindoor" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#993366;">sindoor</span></a> to flaunt their marital status!!!). To begin with it&#8217;s very illogical: how can one person&#8217;s fasting/feasting effect another&#8217;s length of life? But madness doesn&#8217;t end here..they have to further the non sense by doing things like touching their hubbies&#8217; feet!!! What happened to egalitarian nature of marriage?? This year I tried to stay away from this topic which drives me nuts but with Facebook everything just keeps coming straight into my face&#8230;there is no way of avoiding the absurdities (women are falling over each other in flaunting their moronic misadventures!!!)&#8230;here are the thoughts of women on the &#8216;specialness&#8217; of <a class="zem_slink" title="Karva Chauth" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karva_Chauth" rel="wikipedia"><span style="color:#993366;">Karwa chauth</span></a> in their life&#8230;excuse me while I go &amp; throw up:</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">#1 karva chauth means to me as u how much u love ur beloved . with a pure heart u r full day on fast just fr him n only him. getting dressed in red its truely awesome. waiting fr the moon its beauty is different on this day. the first sip of water frm ur hubby all is awesomestttttttttt:-) cant be explained the feeling in words (sic)</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">#2 i like the first sip of water which my hubby offers 2 me&#8230;nd also by keeping fast i can make my hubby realise that how much i care bout him.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">#3 I think its fun to get add on attention from your husband &#8230;That extra dose of care,warmth &amp; love which makes u forget all the effort u have put in fasting <img src='https://s-ssl.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  <img src='https://s-ssl.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  It definately makes the bond stronger !</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">#4 karva chuath is a special day for me because, while offering prayers to god i thank him for creating my man and blessing me with his companionship, which is so precious and dear to me. on this day i observe a nirjal vrath to thank the gods for their beautful creation and making my life so meaningful,its not a tradition followed in my family, am the first one practising it <span style="text-decoration:underline;">because this day gives me a chance to let my man know how much i worship his association</span>.It is to thank the gods and shower affection on my husband and make our relationship more pure and divine&#8230;i dont know and not aware of any stories assoiated with this tradition.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">#5 for me &#8216;karwa chauth&#8217; is the day on which i can try to make my husband&#8217;s life so long so that he looks after me always.. And i jast want to show him that how much i love him and how many things i can left for him.. And aditionaly i like to wear heavy red dresses nd do makup so tht he can see my actual beauty with ful of love.. Lartly i love my husbnd so much i can do every single day as &#8216;karwa chauth&#8217; ..to take his love for ths birth nd for next 6 births..</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">hmmm&#8230;I really don&#8217;t know when these women will wake up &amp; see some sense &amp; stop this derogatory madness&#8230;seriously who needs this dumb festival??</span></em></h2>
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<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#800080;">I was talking to my friend a few days back &amp; she happened to mention about her couple friend, both husband &amp; wife hold good Jobs in MNCs, are making good money, have no kids, &amp; have no time for frivolous activities like cooking at home. So every single day they go out to eat!! I was incredulous. What use is all the money in the world if we can&#8217;t take care of basics thing in life like eating. Eating out every day is seriously injurious to health.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#800080;"><a href="http://ritusthoughtcatcher.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/302944_275434152488025_135968529767922_919976_259616872_n.jpg"><span style="color:#800080;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2295" title="302944_275434152488025_135968529767922_919976_259616872_n" src="http://ritusthoughtcatcher.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/302944_275434152488025_135968529767922_919976_259616872_n.jpg?w=490&#038;h=333" alt="" width="490" height="333" /></span></a></span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#800080;">It is my serious belief that only one of the spouses should work outside the home, to earn the bread &amp; butter. If both work, home life invariably suffers, no exceptions. When I stopped working after marriage, one of the major reasons among many was I wanted to give my hubby home cooked lunch, I didn&#8217;t want him to eat cafeteria food everyday. &amp; since he has to go to office really early in the morning, I have to get up early &amp; there is no way I could finish cooking, get ready &amp; go to my own work. So making lunch in the morning &amp; a good snack in the evening are apparently more important to me than cold hard cash. Also both of us coming home carrying stress from the outside world did not sound very appealing to me. I am always ready to welcome him with a smile when he comes home tired &amp; stressed. When he come we spend peaceful time together. I can let go of the money part for a better quality of life. Some couples earn more but their quality of life sucks. &amp; if one spouse manages the home efficiently, you can actually prevent lotsa wastage. Thus a penny saved is equivalent to a penny earned n wasted. </span></em></h2>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Stay Hungry, Don&#8217;t Stay Foolish: Quitting The Rat Race #8</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish These are the last words of the last issue of the Whole Earth Catalogue published by Stewart Brand and his team. Steve Jobs used it in his 2005 commencement address at Stanford University. Stay Hungry: means don&#8217;t be too easily satisfied or grow too comfortable; do not feel content with what you [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ritusthoughtcatcher.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4838140&amp;post=2292&amp;subd=ritusthoughtcatcher&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">These are the last words of the last issue of the Whole Earth Catalogue published by Stewart Brand and his team. Steve Jobs used it in his 2005 commencement address at Stanford University.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;"><strong>Stay Hungry</strong>: means don&#8217;t be too easily satisfied or grow too comfortable; do not feel content with what you have already achieved but always feel hungry to do more and more.</span></em></h2>
<h2><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><em><span style="color:#993366;text-decoration:underline;">It’s a widespread &amp; widely accepted myth that staying dissatisfied with the status quo is a way to make progress &amp; improve your-self. It is assumed that only hungry, dissatisfied people can move forward in life. I disagree with this point of view. Staying Hungry is just another method to stay stuck in the rat race, that cycle of consumerism &amp; over-work!! Wisdom lies in Accepting the present moment in totality, being absolutely satisfied with the way things are, no struggling, only peace.  Being grateful for the bounties of the present means being satiated &amp; not perpetually hungry. Staying hungry is a recipe for perpetual dissatisfaction. Always wanting more, we become like a hungry ghost<strong>,</strong> a creature with a big mouth, a narrow neck, and a big belly, who is always hungry and can never get enough.</span></em></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">If we want serenity we should focus on the present moment &amp; not scatter our attention on imaginary future.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">The <strong>secret of health</strong> for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future but to live in the present moment</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#993366;"> Buddha</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Nothing ever gets anywhere.  The earth keeps turning round and gets nowhere.  The moment is the only thing that counts.  ~Jean Cocteau</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Forever is composed of nows.  ~Emily Dickinson</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">A small child has no ambitions, he has no desires. He is so absorbed in the moment &#8212; a bird on the wing catches his eye so totally; just a butterfly, its beautiful colors, and he is enchanted; the rainbow in the sky&#8230; and he cannot conceive that there can be anything more significant, richer than this rainbow. And the night full of stars, stars beyond stars&#8230;.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Innocence is rich, it is full, it is pure. Ignorance is poor, it is a beggar &#8212; it wants this, it wants that, it wants to be knowledgeable, it wants to be respectable, it wants to be wealthy, it wants to be powerful. Ignorance moves on the path of desire. Innocence is a state of desirelessness. ~<a class="zem_slink" title="Osho (Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh)" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Osho_%28Bhagwan_Shree_Rajneesh%29" rel="wikipedia">Osho</a></span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">…acceptance, total acceptance, means no desire. Desire arises out of nonacceptance. You cannot accept a certain situation, so desire arises. You live in a hut and you cannot accept it; this is too much for the ego, you want a palace – then you are a poor man, but not because you live in a hut, no. In huts, emperors have lived. Buddha has lived under a tree, and he was not a poor man. You cannot ﬁnd a richer man anywhere. No, your hut doesn’t make you poor. The moment you desire the palace you are a poor man. And you are not poor because others are living in palaces, you are poor because the desire to live in the palace creates a comparison with the hut. You become envious. You are poor.~Osho</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Whenever there is discontent, there is poverty; whenever there is no discontent, you are rich. And you have such riches that no thief can steal them; you have such riches, no government can take them by taxation; you have riches which cannot be taken away from you in any way. You have a fort for your being, unbreakable, impenetrable.</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">It is only possible to live happily-ever-after on a day-to-day basis.  ~Margaret Bonnano</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Enlightenment is the realization that we have only the present moment to live. The next moment is not certain — it may come, it may not come. In fact, the tomorrow never comes. It is always arriving and arriving, but never arrives. And the mind lives in the tomorrows… and life is possible only in the present.~Osho</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">I have realized that the past and future are real illusions, that they exist in the present, which is what there is and all there is.  ~Alan Watts</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">Today is you own. Tomorrow perchance may never come by Swami Sivananda</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">When I am anxious it is because I am living in the future.  When I am depressed it is because I am living in the past.  ~Author Unknown</span></em></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:justify;"><em><span style="color:#993366;">One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living.  We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon &#8211; instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.  ~Dale Carnegie</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="color:#993366;">Pile up too many tomorrows and you&#8217;ll find that you&#8217;ve collected nothing but a bunch of empty yesterdays.  ~The Music Man</span></em></h2>
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